How to Stop a Family Quarrel

You have the potential to fall-out with your nephew, who you've been caring for as your own son since his father (your brother) died. How will you sort it? Pull rank, knowing that you both accept that your age and status are way above his? Remind him of everything you've done for him, so that he feels guilty? Use your greater life experience to either bully or manipulate him?

In Genesis 13, Abram does none of those. He and Lot are living within earshot of the Canaanites and Perizzites. And his herdsmen and Lot's are beginning to fall-out over the pasture arrangements. So Abram deals pro-actively with the issue by being prepared to sacrifice for the sake of peace (he offers Lot first choice of the land - and he chooses the best).

Quarrels within the family of God - and in earshot of those not yet Christians - are a bad thing. Abram shows the way - a Christ-like way, of course - to defuse the difficulty: a willing sacrifice, for the sake of peace and for the sake of the gospel.